There's so much to say about senior year of high school and preparing to enter a completely different world--COLLEGE! I guess I'll begin by giving a brief overview of my experiences and then perhaps some words of "wisdom" to those embarking on a similar journey.
NYU was my #1 choice university since my freshman year of high school. Being a dancer, I originally found out about NYU Tisch. Later deciding that professional dance was not the route for me, I reverted back to my childhood dream of education, and again found NYU--but this time it was Steinhardt. Well, as my indecisiveness continued throughout high school and multiple other journeys were proposed, NYU continued to pop up because it offered each possibility--psychology, social work, you name it--NYU has it! Then the idea of living in NYC just couldn't be beat. Ultimately, that was the primary reason for my application to NYU (and the fact that it has an incredible education program quickly became more than an added bonus).
Having been through the college hunt twice before, my parents (particularly my dad) weren't too thrilled with going through the process all over again, especially since my heart was already set on NYU. Dad's mentality: if you don't get into NYU, we'll deal with it then! As much as I wanted my dream to come true, I had to be realistic. So mom and I visited a few Manhattan schools and I planned out an overly-anal and organized trip to visit some Philly schools (I wouldn't settle for anything but urban). Dad agreed and we were off to Philly for a few days.
Lo and behold, I applied to NYU Early Decision as was the plan for quite some time. But, nervous about not being accepted and not wanting to wait until April for more results, I looked at the rest of my list and any school that used the Common App and had Early Action received an application! Well fortunately for me, I was accepted to NYU and here I am. And now, three years later, I'm helping my cousins go through the same process--giving input & editing essays (and I'm happy to do the same for anyone else who would like that).
But, not only am I advising soon-to-be college students, I also had the opportunity recently to speak to parents of NYU Steinhardt's Freshman Class! This past Saturday was Parent's Day at NYU which is an opportunity for parents of NYU students to learn more about what this university has to offer, particularly the specific school which students are enrolled in. I was asked by Dean Carey (Associate Dean of Student Affairs at Steinhardt) to be on a student panel comprised of one representative from each undergraduate class.
Saturday morning I shared with parents my experiences thus far--the challenges I've faced and the support I have received time and time again from Steinhardt. While NYU is a huge school, Steinhardt has given me a sense of belonging and community (my participation in Student Government has certainly helped develop this feeling). Just as I was indecisive about a career choice before college, multiple options ran through my mind over the past two years and each time I found an interest I was able to take a class in Steinhardt in that field to help guide my future.
My advice for high school seniors or any prospective students:
-research & weigh all your options thoroughly
-visit as many schools as possible
-don't apply to more than (approximately) 7 schools (and that's still a lot)--if you have a long list now, narrow it down before you spend tons of money and time on applications...you're going to have to make a decision sooner or later & chances are, you're really not in love with 20 schools no matter how different and appealing they all are--BUT keep the final list varied (apply to your reach school even if you think it's impossible, and don't be completely idealistic and not apply to a safety---unfortunately, competition is ridiculous these days!
-be honest with yourself and think about what's right for you--not what you and your parents ideally want to be right for you (and there's more out there than just big name schools--CONSIDER THEM!)
-spend quality time on your essay--write it, set it aside, and revisit it a few days later...who you present in your essay is how the admissions boards are going to envision you BUT, don't forget to be genuine and honest--writing about what you think they want to hear isn't going to up your chances
-talk to people at the school's you're thinking about applying to
-don't do your applications last minute
-Early Action is your friend (and so is the Common App)!!! I'm a very patient person but if I had the opportunity to find out in January versus April, why wait? Especially if you haven't had the opportunity to visit schools and you'll need to do that if you're accepted--you have a month to decide once the acceptance letters come in April so try to relieve some stress early on.
Feel free to post comments and ask questions--I'm ALWAYS willing to help out and chat! While the actual application process can be nerve-racking and overwhelming at times, I love researching different options and looking into new schools (dorky, I know).
GOOD LUCK AND STAY POSITIVE!
(and keep fighting the dreaded senioritis--enjoy the last few months of high school)